This is from my home in Bangalore.
I have received some varied kinds of gifts at my wedding. Here are a few that I have preserved in my living room.
The
Nataraja (Hindu Deity) staute is made of Gun metal and was gifted by my Aunt for my wedding.
The statues of women holding, called
Paavai Vilakku in Tamil is also made of Gun metal was bought in Hyderabad when I was shopping for my wedding. I have placed to cup candles in the lamps to avoid the grease and dirt that might accumaulate if I use oil and vik to light the same.
In the centre lies a polished
coconut made of Bell metal. This belongs to my great grandmother passed on to me through my grandmother, as a gift for my wedding.
The silver-coated low
stool was bought for my wedding to serve as a seat for me and my husband to perform the rituals.
Right in the front of the stool, lie a game called
Pazhankuli. It is an ancient game of the southern states of Tamil Nadu and still played in many villages. My mother and I used to play a lot of this during my growing-up years. The coins used for this game are mostly tiny sea shells called Sozhi in tamil. Sometimes, even tamarind seeds are used. All the sea shells of this set have been purchased from Rameswaram.
These two wooden dolls are called
Marapaachi Bommai. It is mandatory in my family to gift this to their daughter for her wedding.
Both the
lamps (the tall and the tiny one) are made of Bell Metal. The taller one is from my mother-in-law's collection from Kochi.
I had decorated my living room entirely on the floor level, mainly because I had floor seating at the centre. I din't want to break the floor level attention.